I’m working hard at finding awesomeness in each day because while there are sad and challenging things going on in my personal life, there are awesome things too. And it all centers around creativity. I encourage you to create every day and embrace the awesomeness.
Check out April’s fantastic Spotlight interview packed full of insight and advice for indie authors.
Meet Paranormal / Urban Romance author Naomi Valkyrie. Naomi packed this Spotlight with a wealth of insight and experience as an indie author. Reap the benefits as I have.
Get your romance on with the Romance Book BlastFREE e-book event April 28. Here are few selections in the Paranormal Romance section.
This event and many crafty ones are filling my calendar. Here are a few just for fun:
Lola Crow’s 2026 Mystery Stitch Along, Museum After Midnight
Just Cross Stitch Magazine’s 2026 Stitch Along, “Tapestry of Twelve.”
Willowing Art’s Free Mastering Mixed Media 2026 Online Workshops
Witchy Sticher May Madness – Instagram group, stitching designs by The Witchy Stitcher. I’m hoping to start a new one from Meg’s wonderful book or my digital library, and work on my two in progress…
April Stitching Progress including some of the events listed above
I truly hope your April was awesome, and happy upcoming Maynia… as we call the fifth month in the stitching world.
Naomi Valkyrie, author of the Life is Hell series and The Cursed series, is known for her unique writing style, perfectly flawed characters, and chosen family themes.
Naomi is fond of saying she is merely the humble vessel characters choose to tell their stories through. Thankfully, her family forgives her midnight writing binges and plies her with caffeine when the characters won’t stop talking.
Let’s Get Started
Welcome to my Spotlight, Naomi. Tell us a little about yourself and how you began your writing journey.
I don’t remember when, exactly, I started writing my first book. It was in 2018, but the details elude me. I’ve slept since then. The whole thing began when I was driving to work one day. I thought, I wonder if I could write a book? So, I did. And then, as often happens, I developed a taste for it.
What or who was your biggest inspiration, your favorite author. Perhaps you can share your favorite books.
I think everything I’ve ever read is part of the inspiration behind my creativity. Reading was my escape in childhood, I spent more time in books than the real world whenever I could. Reading saved my life in a lot of ways.
By nature, I am a person who loves to learn – on my own terms. If I am interested in a topic, I will absorb as much as I can. It’s given me a deep well to dive into when coming up with story ideas. And because I spent so much time using my imagination as a kid, nearly anything can spark an idea now.
There’s no one favorite author for me. There are so many good books, and just not enough time to read them all!
You write in multiple genres under various pen names. I imagine that allows you to wear many creative hats and let your imagination soar. But what are the practical reasons to designate pen names, and what is your advice to authors in that regard?
Originally, I didn’t intend to write under multiple pen names; and you can see this when you look at my Naomi Valkyrie catalog. I’ve got Paranormal Romance, Urban Fantasy Romance, Contemporary Romance, and an Alien romance in there.
Then, as happens so often as you grow in your authorship journey, I learned about branding and continuity. The Valkyrie pen name is now focused on Paranormal Romance and Urban Fantasy Romance.
But, I still wanted to write in those other romance sub-genres. The answer was creating new pen names. When I did that, it got overwhelming real fast. Social media platforms for each one. Newsletters for each one. No, thank you! I am one person. I can only manage so much. This overwhelm led me to create the Kaleidoscope Romance umbrella where I run all the pen names in one place.
If there is advice in this area I would give, it would be to start the umbrella from the beginning so you can spend more time on writing than management. Since I streamlined it, I’ve been much more productive.
Do you write full-time? What is your writing schedule like, and how do you balance writing–your creative time–with day-to-day life? Do you have favorite techniques you use to get your creative juices flowing?
I write full time. That is, I write when my brain lets me. Being neurodivergent, sometimes it can get tricky corralling my brain to stay on task. So, unlike a lot of authors, I don’t have a firm schedule. I write when the hyperfocus comes on, and knock out big chunks at a time.
Not only am I neurodivergent, my family is as well. Our daily life looks different than it would in a neurotypical household. Every day can look different from the day before. It just depends on where everyone is with what they can tolerate at any given time. Most of the time, we flow pretty well. And when we hit a hiccup, we pivot until we get back on track.
As for creative techniques, I don’t have any specific ones. An idea pops into my head and I sit down and write. Ideas are never my problem. Wrangling my brain to stay focused is my biggest hurdle.
What are your top writing resources to help with productivity (applications, services, websites, etc.) and favorite methods you’ve gathered along the way? Are you a pantser or plotter?
I go about my writing process a little differently. All of my first drafts are handwritten. It’s the way my brain works best. So, the most important tools for me are pencils and paper. And I have a hoard of them! Oh, and erasers. Because the ones on pencils never last as long as the lead.
My next most important tool, from a writing standpoint, is Atticus. It does everything I need all in one. The first step in my editing process is transcribing my draft into Atticus to create the manuscript. Then, once all my editing steps are finished, I can format it in there for eBook or paperback!
Since I have nearly abandoned social media – seriously, it is virtually impossible to get visibility on any of the platforms without paying now – my primary tools for marketing are FloDesk for my newsletter (the most important piece of marketing), BookFunnel for group promos and swaps, and StoryKeepr, a robust author management platform where I have my to-do list, release calendar, tracking links, landing pages, more swaps, etc.
At this time, the only two social media platforms I still use on a regular basis are BlueSky and Mastodon. After tracking the numbers, I observed these two platforms are the ones that give me the most traffic. I’m not wasting valuable writing time posting anywhere else. So, you’ll probably find my pages on Facebook, but I am rarely ever on there. And most of those pages have a pinned post to direct people to find me elsewhere. It’s unfortunate, but social media sites have become cesspools and a time suck that’s robbing us of both productivity and attention spans.
Community building is where it’s at now, and most social media isn’t doing that anymore. For community building, I lean on my newsletter, and on my Discord server. There’s no feed to keep me side-tracked with scrolling. I am there having productive conversations with other authors and with readers.
Oh, yes. I must mention my website. Having a website is a key tool. If something happens to your account on a publishing platform, you want people to still be able to find you! (This is also why building a newsletter list is important). Yes, maintaining a website can be tedious, but it keeps you available to readers!
Pantser or Plotter? I hinted at this earlier. I am, and always will be, a pantser. I have to let my brain go where it’s going to go. If I try to organize any of it, it freezes me up. I’ve learned to just sit with the pencil and paper and let my brain download whatever is in there. You can fix anything in edits!
Any advice on publishing?
This is a BIG subject, and a lot of it depends on the person.
I think the most important thing is, before you even publish your first book, decide on your path and stick with it for several years. Things take time to ramp up. Publishing is a slow build. It’s not a get-rich-quick scenario. I know a lot of people don’t want to hear that, but them’s the facts.
If you decide you want to publish wide, then stick with it for several years. Give it time to take root. If you decide you want to publish in KU, stick with it. Don’t bail after six months. That’s not enough time to get any real data. Again – slow build.
Another important thing, you have to get used to change in the overall industry. When I first began, Amazon was the king of indie publishing. Nowadays, more and more authors are going wide, and even setting up direct sales to sell their own books (look into Fourthwall for this).
There’s a lot of advice out there. It can be like trying to drink through a firehose. STOP. BREATHE.
Now, what do YOU want to get out of this? What are you ABLE to do? What is in alignment with your goals and values?
Looking back on my author journey, I can see how I burned out hard several times. I was trying to do too many things that were not in alignment with my values. And, I was trying to do things from a neurotypical framing. But, I’m not neurotypical. Those ways don’t work for me.
People are going to give you a lot of advice. It’s your job to figure out what is actually viable for you, and what you can throw out.
At the end of last year, I did a re-evaluation of my authoring. I realized, with their overwhelming lean into AI, Amazon was no longer in alignment with my values. I’ve taken all my eBooks down from that platform. I wish I could opt out of that platform for my paperbacks, but alas! D2D doesn’t have granular opt out options for that.
Sometimes you’re going to have to make hard decisions to stay true to yourself. But in the long run, you’ll feel better about where you’re headed. Did I take a hit in my sales? Yep. But, it’s temporary. I’m just getting into a new groove. I had to pivot for the greater good of my business. Because if my mental state about my writing isn’t good, I can’t put out quality work.
What have you found to be your best marketing path?
This is another one of those areas where the way you market is dependent on who you are and what you can tolerate.
As mentioned above, after looking at the data, social media turned out to be a complete waste of time and an attention span saboteur. A lot of marketing tips out there are social media tips. Not applicable to me. You’re going to have to weed through all the noise to see what is in alignment with your values, and what allows you to maximize writing time. You need to study the hard data to see where you’re leaking time.
What I’ve leaned into is building my newsletter list. Your newsletter list is the only thing you own. A social media platform can tank your account without notice. A sales platform might close your account without warning. But if you have a newsletter list, you have a way to let your readers know what’s going on.
I build my list through group promos and newsletter swaps. Yes, this requires giving away something free (a reader magnet). I know some of you are probably cringing at that. But, a free book (or chapter sample if you just can’t stomach the idea of a whole free book) is a time-tested part of marketing strategy. Now, you don’t want to give away just any free book. You want something that represents your catalog. For instance, if you write sweet romance, this is not the time to try a dark romance freebie. That sets readers up for disappointment.
I put my free books/chapter previews in group promos that match the sub-genre or theme of my book. Niching down this way adds to the chances I’m going to get readers that are actually interested in what I’m writing. I also swap in matching sub-genres or tropes.
My newsletter is weekly. But that works for me. If you can only send something out monthly, do it. Your strategy has to work for you. Otherwise, you won’t keep up with it.
When I do post on social media, I post and run. I’m talking roadrunner speed with dust flying. As long as I’ve got the right hashtags on my posts, BlueSky and Mastodon do most of the work for me. And those posts are mainly visibility posts. I get almost no sales from them.
In addition to promos and swaps through BookFunnel and StoryKeepr, I participate in active Round Robins. This means, I make sure everyone participating is actually going to share on time. It does no good if people aren’t following through.
Most of my networking is done on author-related Discord servers. And I have my own server where we share ideas and support each other. Part of my networking is offering a monthly Featured Reads spot for authors on my website. I am also building a networking database for authors to search to find networking partners.
As they say, team work makes the dream work!
Can you talk about what you’ve got in the works, your latest releases, and where we can find your books?
After several releases, I learned about leveraging readthrough. I love all my previous book babies. They helped me grow! But now, I am focused on building an entire world. My current series is The Cursed. It’s the foundation series that eight other series will branch off from – one additional series under the Valkyrie pen name, and the remaining seven under the Styx pen name.
As of this spotlight, I’m working on The Cursed: Merric, which is book six. I also have projects scheduled for my other four pen names. And by scheduled, I mean, they’re on the calendar, but who knows if the timeline will stick. I’ve already started the drafts for some of theCurrently, under Naomi Valkyrie and Sinister Styx, you can find my books on:
Thanks again for visiting, Naomi. Any parting advice to aspiring writers?
Build a solid community – both reader and author. You might have to try a few before you find one that fits. If you can’t find one, Kaleidoscope Romance has a server for the misfits, neurodivergent peeps, LGBTQ+ peeps, outliers. If it’s divergent, we’re probably okay with it (with some logical exceptions – like what’s in those Files we keep hearing about right now). Our basic rule is – don’t be shitty to each other. If we’re all sticking to that, it keeps the drama down. One other thing is yes to networking, no to spamming. We’re here to have a good time, not weed through ads.
Don’t put up with anyone’s bullshit. If you leave an interaction feeling like crap about yourself, that’s not a thing you need to repeat. Use the block button early and often.
Beware of scams. They are plentiful, especially now with all the AI stuff going around. Writer Beware is a good resource: https://writerbeware.blog/
Filter advice like you would if you had to purify drinking water in the wild. Just because something worked for someone else doesn’t mean it’ll be a fit for you. And if you discover something isn’t working for you, you’re not chained to it. Give it the axe. You want to enjoy your process, not dread it.
One of the most important things I’ve learned on this journey is, no one is walking my path. They may be walking beside me, but they’re not on my path. Ultimately, my decisions have to work with my life. While you will run across people called experts, YOU are the expert on your life. There’s no one right way to do this out there – there’s only the right way for you.
So, there you have it. The thoughts and journey of a Gen X survivor who is too old to give a shit about fitting in and playing by the rules.
Wow, Naomi, what a wealth of resources you’ve gathered. I can’t express enough thanks for sharing your amazing insights and valuable advice gleaned from your writing journey. So many of us get bogged down with the business of writing while all we want is to focus on the joy of writing. This is so helpful in putting it all in perspective and giving us tools to streamline the process. I wish you all the best in your endeavors.
Stitching, stitching, and more stitching! And I’m loving it all. I also interviewed a wonderful indie author who writes cozy romantasy. Check out our conversation on my Spotlight. Lots of medical follow-ups this month, and getting used to my five-year course of hormone blockers. Still, not really any complaints on the cancer front. Other than that, just using my time to stitch, get out, and walk in this crazy, gorgeous weather.
The wild horses are also out for a walk today.
I hope you enjoy these stitchy photos of my projects as much as I do… Click here and here for previous articles in my stitchy saga. Linking to shops where I can.
Keep in mind, variety is the spice of life. It’s not hoarding…
WIPs
What I’m kitting up for and can’t wait to start
Isn’t this stunning? It’s from Heaven and Earth Designs (HAED), featuring artwork by Ernie Francis. Just my cup of tea, gorgeous, colorful mixed media, a captivating geisha, and my favorite Japanese anime hiding in the background. But folks, this is full coverage, 90 DMC colors, and 20 x 25 inches when finished (stitching tiny stitches in every little square). I will need to put the unfinished work in my will.
I have eclectic tastes, eh? But aren’t these wonderful? (I’ll just restate it here. I am not a hoarder.)
I also got Meg Black’s awesome book from Amazon. I’m drooling over Dracula’s House and Nevermore. There’s also a Poe bookmark to do.
Which Artsy Housewife after Cats and Cocoa?
Cats and CocoaOctober BloomThe Flower Pot Sampler
Others I want to stitch, but down the road sometime… Sigh…
I’ll leave you with photos from my 80s and 90s stitchwork sprinkled throughout my house
Some newer ones. As you can see, some still need finishing… Working on it.
Thanks for letting me catalog my stitchworks, as they will likely end up in a landfill someday… or maybe, if they’re lucky, in a thrift store for some future stitchworks-appreciator to collect. I’m not being negative, just realistic, and it’s something I’ve given a lot of thought to lately…
I’m so happy to start my Spotlight off this year with a wonderful author from our #RomanceBookBlast community, where authors support authors and have a “blast” cross-promoting.
Along those lines…
Let’s Meet the Author
When Alanna ran out of horse stories to read at the local library, her father gave her a box set of The Lord of the Rings.
After a couple of weeks, she declared the trilogy a suitable alternative and started working her way through all the fantasy books in the library (though the unicorns she kept sneaking into her own horse stories should have been a clue about where the whole writing thing was going).
Now, Alanna writes cozy and gaslamp fantasy with romance. And there’s usually a horse or two around that are not of the winged variety.
Let’s Get Started
Welcome to my Spotlight, Alanna. Tell us a little more about yourself and how you began your writing journey.
First, thank you for having me! I’m excited to be here.
I actually have a hard time remembering a time I wasn’t writing stories. I have a strong memory of sitting in my second-grade class and writing a story about unicorns. It wasn’t a class assignment–I would sit in class and pretend I was taking notes, but it was actually a story.
I love it! What a great memory. What else sparked your interest in your cozy romantasy genre?
So, early stories about unicorns aside, most of my stories were about girls and their horses (horses being another early obsession). Looking back, I realize I was always drawn to media with some element of magic or the supernatural, but I didn’t know there was such a thing as the fantasy genre until my father gave me a boxset of the Lord of the Rings trilogy when I was twelve.
I read a lot and would read whatever I could get my hands on, which started including my mom’s romance novels and murder mysteries. The romance influenced me more than the murder mysteries, obviously.
As for cozy, I didn’t set out to write a cozy. Most of what I wrote in my teenage and college-age years was epic fantasy, which transitioned to urban fantasy. Then I stopped writing fiction, period. I had multiple jobs and just didn’t have the time. A few years ago, I made it a goal to publish a book. I picked up the manuscript that became Teaching Magicand finished it. As I was learning about self-publishing, I realized that book didn’t fit on the epic fantasy shelf, and it took me a while to realize it belonged in this growing category of cozy fantasy.
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I love how your reading journey channeled so many elements into the perfect fit for you as a writer. Also, great covers, by the way! Totally giving a cozy plus romantasy vibe. Can you tell us more about what or who inspired you? Perhaps share your favorite books or authors.
I pick up a little bit from everything, I think. My favorite tends to be whatever I’m binging right now. Other books certainly inspire me, but so do movies or song lyrics or even catching a scent that jogs a memory.
Awesome. Do you write full-time? What is your writing schedule like?
I do not write full-time, though I’m hoping to work my way there. I tend to write at night. After I come home, I have to give myself a couple of hours to transition from work brain to writing brain, so I eat dinner, get some chores done, shower. And some nights I have to accept that the words just aren’t coming.
I feel you there. I’ve experimented with all sorts of different schedules and keep going with “when the mood strikes me” for as long as it lasts. Can you share tips on fitting a writing routine into your daily life and what you like to do to spark your creativity?
Fitting a writing routine into my life is a little bit easier for me because I don’t have children. The thing that helped me the most was adding a little bit of outside pressure. For me, that was posting Teaching Magic to Royal Road while I was working on edits. I knew I had to have a chapter ready by a certain day to post, because people were waiting to read it.
What are your top writing resources (applications, services, websites, etc.) and methods you’ve gathered along the way?
The writing resource that probably made the biggest difference for me was discovering Becca Syme’s work on Clifton Strengths. That’s actually where I got the idea to utilize outside pressure to get myself writing. I used to struggle a lot to follow others’ guidance because it didn’t work for me, which made me feel terrible about myself and my writing. Becca’s work taught me how to find advice that actually works for my personality.
For romance writers, I like the book Romancing the Beat and Ines Johnson’s resources (she has something in almost every format, depending on how you like to learn).
I also like resources that aren’t necessarily writing-focused. There are a ton of world-building guides and things on YouTube that are geared toward tabletop role-playing games. I listen to so many history podcasts, which can spark ideas but also help me feel out what life is like for my characters.
Thanks for all these great tips and ways to spark story ideas. I checked out the Romance Write Club found on Ines Johnson’s website. The classes look amazing. Along these lines, what is your advice on publishing and marketing?
Whoo, this is a big question. Probably the biggest thing is to not do all the things. Pick one type of marketing and get that established before you move on to something else. For example, I spent a lot of time this past fall working on my newsletter. I revamped the short story readers can get for free by joining my newsletter. I started doing more promotions to get people onto my newsletter list. I gathered together a bunch of emails from authors I follow, and I read each one, found bits I wanted to include, and built a template for my newsletter. My list still isn’t big, but it is growing steadily.
I really appreciate this advice. It makes sense to focus on one thing, and I’m impressed how you’ve built such an amazing newsletter following–your own community eager for your stories. Can you share what you’ve got in the works and where we can find your books? I believe you sell your books on your website, Alanna Cole Books? Can you talk about how that works in conjunction with other book retailers?
Selling on my website is very new for me, so I haven’t quite figured it out yet. I will be releasing a boxset of Teaching Magic and Trial by Magic next month, and I will offer it on my website first before I upload it to the retailers.
I just released a short novel about a side character from my secondary-world gaslamp fantasy series called An Inquest of Gryphons. All of my books can be found on most ebook retailers and are also available through Kobo Plus and Everand. I can also be found on Instagram at @alannacole.books.
I’m not quite sure what my next book will be, but it will most likely be in the same world as Teaching Magic. I’ve had several fun ideas about characters from that world that I’m exploring.
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I really need to focus on Kobo. It’s growing huge, and I just saw a YouTube video where a reader shared their new Kobo eReader, which has some really cool features that seem to compete with, maybe even outshine, the Kindle. I’m just starting to research the pros and cons.Thanks for visiting, Alanna. Any parting advice to aspiring writers?
Thank you for having me! Aspiring writers, find a group. I have two: a local group where we do writing meetups and share ideas, and an online group that is more of a professional organization for my genre. It is so important to surround yourself with other writers.
The nice steady slow beat where I can breathe and experience satisfaction in my handiwork. I hate to call it escape. Maybe “living” captures the time spent moving colorful silks and cotton through fabric with a needle.
I’m hoping some of my enjoyment will flow into the universe, and you’ll catch the vibe. (See the start of this series, and some of my beautiful stitching this past couple of weeks, in my previous post, and feel free to share your creative outlets.)
Not one fictional word written in two weeks… Wait, what?! But it’s true, and I’m doing okay. Hmmm… My pod people are quiet in my head. Maybe they needed a vacation, too.
So, instead of books and writing, I’m sharing my craft projects, old, and yes! New! I’ve caught the bug again after watching “Flosstube” videos with all the wonderful designs being shown off. I have tons of stash to dive into, but naturally I’m missing certain colors, which leads to retail therapy… Yes! Another benefit of embracing this surprising whiplash turn in my daily life. Somehow, writing doesn’t spark the same need to buy as other crafts do… but that’s a blog for another day.
Retail Therapy
A tiny sample of favorite shops: 123Stitch.com for DMC and Weeks Dye Works floss, Etsy (so much cross stitching!) for patterns and specialty floss, and other items like these gorgeous project bags. My favorite goth pattern designer is The Witchy Stitcher for the eerie and quirky. My favorite fabrics come from BeStitchMe.com
The most exciting part of this birthday month adventure has been kitting up for new starts. Check out these designs I purchased after watching too many enablers on FlossTube. (That’s my excuse and I’m sticking to it.) I’ve made significant starts in “Greenhouse of Oddities,” “Cats and Cocoa,” and “I Like Cross Stitch.” I even started an old pattern from my stash, “Single Step” by Stichrovia.
Single Step by Stitchrovia (had in my stash and wanted to start forever)Summer Gothic Sampler by The House of CamA Graveyard Wander by The Witchy StitcherA Stitcher Haunts Here by The Witchy SticherBooks are Magic by Counting PuddlesWinter Flower Bird by Nathnolu (got all four seasons)
My progress… on the first three above.
Cats and Cocoa also on 16 ct Aida, Sugar Cookie (don’t remeber the dyer)Greenhouse of Oddities, and the gorgeous fabric by BeStitchMe, 16 ct Aida, PeanutGreenhouse of Oddities (stitching in SAL sections, starting top center)On 16 Ct Aida from Hand-dyed by Rolanda
Today, the last day in February to round out my record craze, I’m starting “I Like Cross Stitch” and this Stitch Along (SAL), “Tapestry of Twelve,” from the Spring Just Cross Stitch Magazine by multiple designers. You can borrow the magazine issues from Amazon’s Kindle Unlimited. The top left corner is part one of four. I bought the called-for Weeks Dye Works overdyed floss. Gorgeous!
Rescuing Old Stitchworks Languishing in a Box
I recycled hallway picture frames, and now I get to enjoy these.
Stitcher’s House by Stone Street StitchworksFrankenstein for The Stitching Bookclub (SBC) Walkin’ on Sunshine by Luhu Stitches
I’ve touched over a dozen old WIPs (works in progress) in February, including restarting three – all those old problems that made me hide them away and forget about them. I totally got inspired to patiently frog out stitches or toss out the disliked fabric or fabric I measured incorrectly, and show them some love. The first of my three restarts was in my previous post, but I’ll add it here as well.
Old (sad face) Garden Stroll by Carolyn Manning (design free with Sulky Thread Pack)Garden Stroll – New startOld (absolutely no room for the entire design. Oops! Fresh Picked Evergreens by Petal Pusher (came with specialty floss)New (started in the corner this time)And… I finished the free pattern that came with it!A tiny finish! Isn’t she pretty?
And this beloved project, Keiko Sato Sampler by Twin Peak Primitives, started in November 2020, is also on fabric a bit too small, but I love the color with the stamped leaves, and decided to make it work. So, I stitched all night on the berry out to the black border, and part of the crane to see how close I would be to the edge of the fabric. Less than an inch! But I’ll make it.
Keiko Sato Sampler by Twin Peak Primitives
Another Finish!
Check out this gorgeous reproduction sampler, stitched in 1857 by Jane Marshall, a 10-year-old Australian girl. I pulled out the band I was working on (her name) because the color just wasn’t working, and then I couldn’t stop stitching. The silk floss came from my stash, featuring a gorgeous variegated silk called Fairy Quilt Crossing. The pattern was free from Hands Across the Sea Samplers in support of the Aussie fires in January 2020. Many designers contributed patterns, and I stitched three, two I finished in 2020.
I’m blinking hard. The light is bright and welcome. I smile. Where shall I start? I reach for the canvas bin and all my pretties…
This has been my February: emerging from a five-year writing binge, still preoccupied with the many stories I have yet to finish. However, I know I need something different. Suddenly, the urge to stitch strikes me. I experience a moment of panic, but then I remember that dozens of kitted-up projects survived the great purge of 2025 – that strange year (yeah, it was only last year, but it feels like a lifetime ago) when I felt compelled to clear space in my 10×10 craft room for life’s unexpected challenges.
My cancer treatments are behind me now, the world is even crazier, and living in it requires creative survival tactics. I’ll call it revitalization. The joy I’ve found in stitching over all my decades calls to me again, urging me down that rabbit hole of bliss in mindful handwork – all the color, texture, and wonderful redefining rhythms of pulling a needle filled with vibrant silks and cotton through scrumptious fabric.
I’m happy to report that I started the fun last week by organizing all 50 WIPs (works in progress) and my supply stash. And yes, 50 survived the purge, though I sadly gave away 30 others plus tons of stash. My projects are all stored in a beautiful collection of handmade bags in pretty bins on my shelves.
From late 2018 through 2021, I was part of the stitching community on YouTube known as FlossTube, an outgrowth of BookTubers who love to stitch. The channels multiplied as even the shiest stitchers came out of their craftrooms to share their passion through video. Watching these women and men from all over the globe, living all the diverse lives, talking about the huge thing we all have in common, and sharing their progress, is surprisingly addictive… and highly enabling – and the craft supply hoarder part of me went wild. So did many new designers. Careers were launched, dreams were made.
Sitching while listening to books was how I got started writing at the end of 2020… but that’s another story.
I’m so excited to return to this world on YouTube, finding so many old favorites still at it and still working on some of the same BAPs (Big Ass Projects), many of them the same ones I’m trying to finish. Nope, it’s not a lonely craft. If you check it out, you’ll discover that for yourself.
My challenge now is to balance time for crafting (including knitting and crocheting) with time for writing novels. I’ve got nine, yes, nine stories in the works. I’ve always been, and always will be, a multi-crafter, serial starter, and steady finisher. Lately, I’ve focused on finishing short stories for anthologies, but those novels keep on developing…
Want to see some of what I’ve been doing this past week? Because I must share. 😍 I stitched on 13 projects, making really decent progress, and even finished one last night! I plan to finish another one in February. As with my novels, I’ll keep you posted throughout the year.
I hope this inspires you to catch the crafting bug or return to a favorite – maybe carve out some time to create a little something every day, then share the beauty. It makes a difference to the universe.
I did get a finish done last year, which I adore. Monster Whale by Owl Forest Embroidery. It still needs framing… so you get my chihuahua for now.
Our TDB group of indie authors is so busy! Yet even as we all work on our next novels, market our published books, and network, we find time to contribute stories to these beautiful collections assembled and published by The Dreamer’s Bookshop, which was created to support indie authors. Enjoy another batch of amazing writing, all about passion, from diverse authors in different themes, genres, and styles.
“Ardour. Passion That Ignites the Soul” Featuring “Pixie Dust & Stud Collars” by D. L. Lewellyn.
Meet Shannon, a journalist covering an all-girl punk rock band, the Twisted Chords. After witnessing another swoon-worthy pub goer vanish before her eyes during a performance, Shannon is determined to get to the bottom of it. The problem is that no one but her seems to notice the strange, dust-like phenomena emanating from the stage and swirling toward the unsuspecting victim. And worse, she feels oddly connected to whatever the weirdness is.
We launched our first collection, “Dreams,” in December. If you love poetry and stories in multiple genres all about DREAMS and ARDOUR, you can support the authors, including me, by purchasing the books and wonderful matching merch directly through the charming little shop in Belgium. Paperbacks are available on Amazon.
I recently explored the concept of my characters sprouting from alien spoors, seeding my mind with featureless golems that come to life through my fingers and spring over the keyboard. Yes, I live with pods in my head. I really like it in there, and they depend on me.
What I don’t like is having to leave them behind when I come out to do all the mind-bending, endless labor it takes to publish and sell books. Too much time getting headaches when all I want to do is add dimension to my pod family! …And maybe find some time to relax with the hubby. That seems to be a hard-won bonus these days. I mostly get to see him when he comes to visit my pod people. He’s very amenable that way.
But I’m being honest here… I mostly want to run screaming back to the confines of my imagination. There are scenes needing to be written! More characters that lay dormant, waiting for the words to make them whole. Why must I go down a million internet vortexes that lead to galaxies, that lead to universes where it seems I might never find my way back out, just to get them out into the world?
Do they really need to go into print? Maybe my pod people are happier where they are.
The bottom line is, I tell their stories for readers to enjoy.
So, grow pod people, take shape, and fly off the page and into cozy reading nooks everywhere.
Updated Blog, January 2026 – This year is the fifth anniversary of my series launch! Enjoy The Starlight Chronicles... On SALE January 26 – 30!
Artwork above and below by:
Vic DeLeon Art Director, Ark II, Studio Wildcard – ArtStation.com
Thank you, Richie Billing, for such a wealth of fantasy writing resources, including this fantastic, detailed article, “Medieval Castles: A Complete Guide.” Just what I was looking for as I write my contemporary fantasy set in a well-preserved fortification in the Scottish Highlands, shaped like a dragon’s footprint… from a dragon’s-eye view…